Last time, I shared with you my thoughts on marriage
proposals. I've mentioned that I'm a big fan of unique and memorable ways to
ask for the hand of your sweetheart. While looking for an unforgettable way to
propose to your special someone, there are some things that you should consider…
things that might actually turn the romantic
moment into a disaster.
After performing a small survey on Santorini, I've chosen
the top 5 worst marriage proposal mistakes.
1. The crowd
I'm sure a lot of us would love the idea of a public
proposal, be that at a popular location of your town, in the movie theatre,
with a public announcement at the metro station etc., there are still a lot of
people who would prefer a more private proposal. Before conjuring an amazing
plan, which will involve the whole football stadium sharing your special
moment, make sure you other half would be comfortable with such a big audience.
If she or he does not like to share personal moments with strangers or is
simply a shy person, your proposal might end up being remembered for the wrong
reason. Better go with a "stay-at-home" plan.
2. The argument
Sometimes, even the most loved couple's can get into
fights. The best way to end it, is by acknowledging your mistake or offering a peaceful
negotiation. By no means proposing in the heat of the argument is a good idea!
Yes, it might sound like a perfect way to switch the energy from bad to good,
in reality it is an almost guaranteed "NO!". Your significant other
won't feel surprised and excited, and most probably receive it as a really bad
joke. Surround the proposal with positive memories, not negative ones.
3. The panic
attack!
You are an adventurous type. You like to go kayaking, sky
diving, bungee jumping. You might be in love with the adrenaline rushing
through your veins. While your other half might be supportive of your hobbies
or job, it does not necessarily mean that he or she would like to engage in
such activities. Before planning a paragliding proposal, make sure your future
Mrs. or Mr. is not afraid of heights! If you really wish to propose during a
fun activity, choose something less … exciting. Go on a catamaran cruise or at
a nice hike.
4. The lazy
Some people prefer the quite indoor life: watch a movie,
read a book, play chess. It is especially great when you, yourself, are an
indoor person, and the love of your life is an indoor person as well. Together
you conquer the minecraft universe, enjoy cooking, or spend hours snugging on
the couch and just being lazy together. Having said that, as much as you like
being lazy on your free, this does not mean that your proposal should be a lazy
one as well. Don't just ask your sweetheart to look at drawer for a surprise.
Get creative and get of the couch!!
5. The food
allergies
The most classic and 100% success proved way to ask for
the hand of your one and only, is after a delicious and romantic dinner. If you
decide to go to your favorite restaurant to propose, your girlfriend or
boyfriend will choose something for themselves. If, on the other hand, you
decide to prepare dinner yourself, make sure to know any food allergies your
other half might have. Ending such a promising evening at the emergency room
because of a silly tomato allergy, is certainly the last thing you would wish
for.
Whichever way you choose to propose, ensure that both you
and you loved one will equally enjoy it. This is a good reason not to jump into
marriage after the first six months you've been together, but to give it some
time to get to know your new found love. Don't make it a 30 year wait though. ;)
Thank you very much for reading!
You have my warmest wishes.
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